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Let No One Steal Your Joy

Karen St. Hilaire, Neighbor

This weekend was an eye opener as I was able to witness an individual fight with her family for the right to be her own person and the right to live with her own choices.  She was not asking for permission but for them to accept her choices. 

Living with the decisions that you make is a major part of life. There may be individuals in your life who may try to own your happiness, own your success and even influence your decision. They do so in the name of  love and protection and its done with sincerity: but a line gets blurred. The fight is usually hard because these folks are important to you: parents, siblings and even spouses. 

If you find that you are taking a stance that cannot and will not be swayed by none other than you, then you should stand your ground and in time acceptance will prevail. 

Here are some things to think about the decisions that you are making:

  • Will it be harmful to you?
  • Are you willing to live with the outcome?
  • Will it bring physical harm to those dear to you?
  • If the tables were turned, would your opinion be a factor?
Remember, you may experience push-back from those in opposition because its not what they want for you. As long as you are not placing anyone in harms way, stand your ground. Don't allow anyone to come in and steal your joy. You are responsible for your personal happiness. 
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